A Little About Me...


I’m Melissa Kay and I blog and write on dating and relationship advice for women. First let me start off by saying I’m frequently told I look significantly younger than I actually am, so don’t be fooled by how I look.

Since my early teenage years, or for well over a decade, I’ve loved to read all kinds of dating advice columns and magazines both online and offline. I’ve studied these and related topics in university, and I am a huge advocate for female power and taking control of your own life as a woman. My obsession has become a passion so it’s no surprise that I’m going to start blogging about it. Now I’m going to share all this knowledge I’ve got packed away in my brain and which I’ve tried and tested myself.

I’m fascinated by the issues that come up in a woman’s life, and what holds them back from achieving the life that they want. As human beings and as women, we have so much power and ability and I’m passionate about showing other women just how much they could do if they took the initiative. My goal is to identify objections that women have and then present steps of how to overcome them.

Because I believe that every woman can have the life that she wants. She just needs to learn to overcome self-doubt so she can reach out and take it. That’s why my writing is dedicated to female empowerment, the pursuit of happiness, and the attainment of self-growth and self-fulfillment.

Rather than simply inspire you, I’m going to write things that are actionable. That’s because when people read inspirational writing, they are inspired for a moment but then that inspiration fizzles out after a short time because they don’t know what to do with that inspiration. But if you put my actionable tips into practice after you read them, not only will you be inspired, but you’ll build a genuine self-confidence because you’ll see that it’s not actually that hard to be the woman that you want to be when you know what to do.

All you have to do is be a tiny bit bolder.

So let’s do this thing, gals!

My Book

Capture His Heart: A Woman's Guide To Attracting Men



Capture His Heart: A Woman's Guide To Attracting Men

Want to have men lining up for you? Then this guide is for you!

A compilation of top posts from my blog, Capture His Heart is a short guide to attracting the man of your dreams. Follow these practical tips and you'll be on your way to becoming a dating superstar!

From getting a guy to notice you and learning how to talk to men even if you're shy all the way to getting him to fall head over heels for you. This free guide covers all the main points a woman needs to know to find happiness from first meeting to love.

Topics Covered:
How to Get Him to Notice You
How to Get a Guy to Like You
How to Talk to Men
Best Dating Tips for Women
How to Get a Guy to Kiss You
How to Make a Man Fall in Love With You